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Couple facing away from each other fighting


Are you Open Enough for love?
Do you really Connect Emotionally?
Are Moods a Burden on your relationship?
Can you Communicate without Anger?
Do you Push your Partner Away sexually?  

Why is it so hard to love? We inherit our relationship patterns from our parents, their personality and all the years of our childhood, which is why they feel so natural. We don't even know what our patterns are in many cases! Outdated relationship patterns keep us from loving each other in healthy, mature, vibrant and nourishing ways. Instead of being open with each other we tend to live life "in our head" until we need to vent or complain. This isn't a connection that feels nourishing enough over time. Healthy relationship patterns are the key to feeling closer and more turned on to each other. We want a higher quality of love than what our parents struggled with. As we grow out of unhealthy patterns with each other we begin to feel more connected, nourished, and supported. Don't settle for being roommates with bickering, power-struggles and control issues!

A Couples Session is a private hour for you and your partner to be able to open up at a deeper level and start to really connect. You will learn how to be more of a team, to support each other emotionally, to feel heard, to get your needs met without so much control and anger.  Learn how to have a healthier relationship than you grew up around!  Tools will guide you both to grow out of your baggage!

Practicing Together with Relationship Tools is a good way for you and your partner to grow into being more heart-centered, open, connected and emotionally nourishing with each other. Couples receive tools, materials, and easy exercises that will help you raise your relationship to a higher level of love!  Each couple can share openly in the practice exercises. This is not a group exercise, and you only talk with your partner.

Couples Workshops are also offered every few months. In each workshop you talk only with your partner and it's a safe place to practice new patterns with more support! Get on the wait list and you will be notified when the next workshop is planned.

Call Dr. Wheeler at 951-687-6066 to schedule an appt!