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What Keeps Love Struck?

Why is it so hard to love? We inherit our relationship patterns from our parents, their personality and all the years of our childhood, which is why they feel so natural. We don't even know what our patterns are in many cases! Outdated relationship patterns keep us from loving each other in healthy, mature, vibrant and nourishing ways. Read More

Why Couples Turn Off!!

Couples turn off because they start to feel more emotionally pushed away and shut down to each other. This often happens so gradually that partners tolerate it and they slowly become used to it. Becoming "roomates", "best friends", or "pals" isn't enough to sustain an intimate relationship.  Read More

My Partner Won't Come In

My partner doesn't really want to make changes! What can you do if you want to work on issues but your partner keeps making excuses or putting it off? Don't give in because then nothing will change! Distance just festers and actually gets worse over time. Read More

Do you feel more like a "roommate"? 

Sometimes couples become stuck and feel turned off or lose interest and attraction! Do you have to push yourself to be intimate? Does your partner guilt or pressure you? When couples meet they usually feel chemistry, attraction, desire and passion!.. Read More

Do you live life on a treadmill? 

I feel like I live life on a treadmill! I can't just let go and just have fun anymore! I've become too serious and stressed. I feel constant pressure to do something! I can't "get out of my head"! I work and have kids and I tell myself this is just how life is!.. Read More

Do you feel controlled by your wife? 

Strong, confident women are attractive but you may be in a passive role! If you are too shut down and passive, don't meet her halfway you may have some relationship patterns that are unhealthy. Do you tend to just give in and give up, let her have her way?.. Read More

Have you turned into his "Mother" and feel stuck? 

Do you feel frustrated having to nag, beg, scold, or threaten?  Do you have "heavy talks" but it only changes for a few weeks?  You are both stuck in codependency patterns! The good news is you can grow out of it!.. Read More


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